sarahs wisdom- installment 2.
If your husband doesn't want to do something with you- go without him.
For example: going to a ward picnic or taking 4 kids to a movie or going on vacation with some friends or any type of activity involving exercise.
Go without him. Really it'll probably be more fun anyways. They get grumpy when they are tired.

See it's not necessarily something against you they may-
work to much and want to stay home.
Maybe they don't enjoy being social as much as you do.
Or they really don't find exercise enjoying.
OR if they have to take 4 kids anywhere, they have the fear of the meltdown and can't relax.

it took a good 5 years of marriage for me to realize you don't have to do everything together. don't be embarrassed...i just tell people straight up - eric really doesn't want to be social tonight, he wants to watch Lord of The Rings or do one of the million progects we have at home. I'm sure half the guys at whatever event your at would like to be doing the same thing.
there- go be happy.